The Physical vs. Cognitive Stage of Motherhood

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“Mom! You’re not listening!!!” My six-year-old pulls at my sleeve in frustration. He is right. I tuned out mid sentence, when he was telling me something about his new favourite dinosaur. It’s not that I’m not interested, I really am, but we’ve spent the last several hours together, and I just need some personal space. Some personal space to think. Now that he is bigger, I require more frequent breaks from him than I did when he was a baby (or than I do from his baby sister now). Not only that, but the typical challenges of parenting a six year old—setting boundaries, discipline, and so on—are much more of a struggle for me than any of the physical responsibilities tied to parenting an infant.

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About Tanya Mozias Slavin

Tanya Mozias Slavin is a writer, linguist and a mother of two. She was born in Russia, grew up in Israel and has lived in Canada and the US, where she worked on Oji-Cree, an endangered aboriginal language of Canada. She now lives in the UK and writes about parenting, languages, multiculturalism, and everything in between. Her essays and articles have appeared in Washington Post, Brain, Child, The Forward, Scary Mommy and other places.
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2 Responses to The Physical vs. Cognitive Stage of Motherhood

  1. Jean L-H says:

    Hey, thanks for following my blog! Your blog title caught my eye – Le Petit Prince is my all-time favourite book – so I clicked through, and I’m glad I did because I really enjoyed this piece. It also sounds like you and I have a fair bit in common, so I’m looking forward to reading more of your stuff!

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